OkTie2300

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2025-01-29 18:00:09

I am probably facing a divorce over porn

As you admit in your post, it's more than about porn. But focusing specifically on the porn, do you have regular sex? Who is usually the initiator? How often is sex declined by one of you?

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We did have pretty regular sex - maybe 1-2x per week. We are not they kind of people that constantly shut each other down or anything like that, but it's understandable that sometimes we both decline for normal reasons. I initiate 80% of the time, but she has always wanted me to be the dominant one in bed anyway, so I just kind of accepted that that was probably part of it.

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Just asking because a lot of porn usage complaints I see are due to it causing less intimacy. Women justifiably get upset if their partner chooses porn over her... Assuming she is usually agreeable and hoping you initiate more.

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I admit it probably does cause less intimacy between us. BUT, I have also found that no matter how much sex we have, I will still want to rub one out on my own once in a while. I think this is totally normal for guys and I would assume even for women (though ofc I don't talk to women about this topic so I wouldn't know for sure).

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