Oyster perpetual sizing

The first image is OP 36mm and the second is DJ 41 mm. The AD didn’t have OP in 41 so recommended I tried the DJ in 41. I’m now on the list for 41mm and expect to receive it in the next few months. But the question is, is 41 too big? I like have a prominent watch without getting u comfortable and 41mm DJ seemed comfortable. And on my hand, both 36 and 41 looked similar. Hoping to hear some thoughts on this.