matchmaking takes forever (PC)

im not shadowbanned but it takes 3-10 minutes to find a match ever and when i do find a match its only me and 2-4 other players, im assuming this is a bug because all my other friends i play with dont have this issue at all and im the only one in the group, its so bad that i dont even wanna play the game because of how agonizing it is to find a match, does anyone know a fix to this?