INTP woman - the unlovable

This will be a somewhat pathetic rant from an INTP woman dealing with a lifetime of dating failures, but bear with me and offer some advice (only if you truly believe it is real, no platitudes or sugarcoating reality please).

I can't imagine a man, any man, choosing to be with an INTP woman over an ENFJ, an ESFJ, or any of the more feminine types. Seriously what can a INTP woman offer, especially to a mature guy looking to start a family? An ENFJ will be charming, warm, socially successful, hardworking, impeccably groomed and dressed, and a great mother. An INTP woman is just the opposite: cold, logical, boring, reserved, clumsy, socially inept, a procrastinator. Does she stand any chance with a desirable guy (of course there are guys no other woman wants, but they too would dump her instantly should an ENFJ goddess show up).