Is limerence perceived differently in men and women?

Disclaimer; I am biased because I am a man who's sometimes been perceived as creepy from my attempts at seduction, and I've also never been obsessed over (probably for the best). I do think women get forgiven easier because they're allowed to be more emotional, inuitive, etc, in general.

Sometimes when I was dwelving upon my delusional episodes with acquaintances both male and female, I'd get some weird looks, or some comments that I'm not normal, overall was made me feel like I'm weak of sorts. What do you think?