Why don't women approach me?

I have tried dressing masc and femme and women seem to avoid me like the plague regardless. When I was a teenager and thought I was straight and didn't gaf about what I looked like, women threw themselves at me and now that I know who I am it seems no one wants me. Idk maybe it's because I live in Kansas City and there's only gay men here but I see lesbians (or at least I'd assume two women of a similar age eating together are lesbians idk) at my work all the time so I just don't even know anymore.

What about me should I fix in order to let other lesbians know I am one of them? Or rather, where should I hangout so I can meet other lesbians? Bc they don't seem to go to the club, bars, coffee shops or book stores. I am so lonely, man... I moved here after a really bad break up and I'm beyond ready to move on but alas everyone woman I meet is either straight or bi-sexual with a strong preference for men.