My father

What trigger this is on thanksgiving no one brought up politics, except my grandpa. So when me and my sister FaceTimed later that night I said, and this is a direct quote, “surprising at 2 different places politics never came up, except when papa was pushing [cousin] about his fiancés beliefs (she was not there), it made me a little uncomfortable because he was obviously not comfortable.”. Yes in my messages I played it off as a joke because it was supposed to be light hearted. My sister disagrees with me on some political topics so she told my dad, I 100% believe she didn’t do it with malice, just a conversation starter. Then I get these texts at midnight but I didn’t receive them until 2pm the next day, I think it was Friday night he sent them.

Oh and the thing he sent to my fiancés house was my birthday present, that I received on Christmas because he didn’t send it there, he sent it to his own house by accident. It was wrapped and given as a Christmas gift, my birthday is in August.

He apologized dec 23rd, almost a full month later. Asking me what I wanted for Christmas.

Not that it matters but we also have more than just a car payment between the 2 of us, he was purposefully ignoring all of our other bills and we were also unemployed at the time.