Straight girls calling gay men queen

What are yallls thought on this. When other queer people calls me queen it’s fine and I take it as a compliment but when straight girls do it it feel like soft faggot. Idk if it’s internalized homophobia but it definitely kinda irks me. I know they don’t mean no harm but it’s like I’m placed into the role of a stereotypical flamboyant gay friend