Genuinely hate this with my nonexistent feels
Horrible
Why is the one with the ponytail more okay with people touching them in the privates than the one with short hair?
It’s complicated with its range of colors but also lacks specifics- is this how okay it is for these people to just come up to me and do? Or is it with permission? Appropriate in what situation, in what context? I much prefer the one where it says- this is where I’m okay with ___ touching me here when ___ (with permission, okay, maybe, yes, idk, not just okay, not okay)
Besides the sexism and strange generalizations I genuinely don’t like this as a chart alone, it poorly separates the body parts into inconsistent sections where it would be easier to generalize areas more and simplify the range. Even if you don’t add specifics It would make more sense for it to go from red to yellow to green- easily recognized and frequently used colors with common meanings behind them, I don’t think red should be in the middle, it makes it seem like it’s more on one side than the other. It also has a lot of biases and besides the unneeded extended range of colors this could be equally as specific and still work if it was done right. Some of the colors aren’t even used!
Why is it just as okay for my friend to touch my feet as my cousin to touch my hand, pls don’t
And what if I want headpats? Why is that orange :(
Horrible
Why is the one with the ponytail more okay with people touching them in the privates than the one with short hair?
It’s complicated with its range of colors but also lacks specifics- is this how okay it is for these people to just come up to me and do? Or is it with permission? Appropriate in what situation, in what context? I much prefer the one where it says- this is where I’m okay with ___ touching me here when ___ (with permission, okay, maybe, yes, idk, not just okay, not okay)
Besides the sexism and strange generalizations I genuinely don’t like this as a chart alone, it poorly separates the body parts into inconsistent sections where it would be easier to generalize areas more and simplify the range. Even if you don’t add specifics It would make more sense for it to go from red to yellow to green- easily recognized and frequently used colors with common meanings behind them, I don’t think red should be in the middle, it makes it seem like it’s more on one side than the other. It also has a lot of biases and besides the unneeded extended range of colors this could be equally as specific and still work if it was done right. Some of the colors aren’t even used!
Why is it just as okay for my friend to touch my feet as my cousin to touch my hand, pls don’t
And what if I want headpats? Why is that orange :(