Issues between me & the husband

We’ve been through around a year of some rough patches which have really made us fall apart and messed up our relationship.

We used to be I guess what people would refer to as an ideal couple when in reality he hates a lot of things which I’ve done and can’t seem to forgive me, vice versa

We are still in love which is something I guess that is keeping us going but how can we build on things to go back to the way things were? We are so lost as to what we should do.

We really want to work on our relationship & ourselves but not sure where to start

(Issues caused by family members which led to rifts)