Getting angry when men like me

Hi, I'm currently questioning if I am bisexual or lesbian, and so wanted to ask about this.

My entire life, I've been extremely annoyed when boys and men have crushes on me. Maybe it's because they are so obvious, or because they assume I am reciprocating based on kindness I would show to all friends or acquaintances. When girls/women have liked me though, I've never felt annoyed or disrespected by it. Not sure if this is a sign that I'm a lesbian or what, so figured I would ask.

Any help would be great, thanks