Low maintenance na girlfriend

The problem: This is the image I had with my past boyfriends that made them complacent then thinking the relationship was getting boring. I'm very chill but also a giver and pleaser sa relationship. Bihira lang din magkaroon ng away while dating.

What I've tried so far: I tried to make the relationship interesting naman like "Punta tayo dito/Kain tayo dito/Try natin yung activity na ito" pero madalas ang sagot nila is "Sige next time/Kapag may pera tayo/Kapag hindi na ako busy/Tinatamad ako lumabas". Pero no relationship is perfect kasi kahit sila din mag-aya sakin lumabas, may times din na wala akong gana. Pero ako mas madalas nag-aaya sa kanila lumabas 😅

Nag-eeffort naman din ako sa appearance ko. I think I'm a 6-7/10 on a normal day then 8-9/10 kapag nag-ayos talaga ako 😂 (dinaan lang sa confidence yarn? 🤪)

What advice I need: After another failed relationship, iniisip ko kung need ko kaya baguhin sarili ko? Like should I kinda lie para makaranas ng effort and more than the bare minimum? Please give me advice and tips 🫶

Additional info: This is for future references. I'm already in my late 20s and wala pa ako balak mag-date ulit kasi nakakapagod na 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

Btw, my past boyfriends were same age as me and up to 6 years na age gap