chinese lesbians, how did your parents react to you coming out?

i'm 20F and white and my girlfriend (23) is chinese, she lives in china and i visited her a few times meaning we're in an LDR until she moves to germany in a few months. her parents seem really sweet but unfortunately they don't speak english (and obviously not german either haha) and i don't speak mandarin :,) my gf hasn't come out to her parents and when i visit her in china, we pretend to be best friends. i'm worried how her parents will react once they know that she is a lesbian and in a relationship with me. we are probably going to marry if nothing bad happens until then and it would be nice for both our families to share our joy. obviously, i don't know a lot about how most asian parents think about homosexuality, and i'm worried they won't take it well, since gay marriage isn't legal in china. i don't want my gf's relationship to her parents to be damaged because they seem really sweet but i know that it can be hard accepting stuff like that if you've lived in a very heteronormative society your whole life and never considered that your daughter could be anything other than straight.

if you're chinese (or from other asian countries, not sure how much queer acceptance varies!) and came out to your parents, at which point in your life did you decide to come out, how did they react and, in case they didn't react well, how did you deal with that?

sending everyone lots of love💗