Losing hope

My husband and I (USC) got married january of 2024 and filed for i130 in the beginning of march. We've been in active review status ever since. Its been 9 months already and they just added 12 more months to the progress tab. At this point, im losing hope that he will ever be here. I'm so sad over this and have lost all hope in this process. Anyone else feeling the same? I need a support group.