Considering to learn how to ride

I'm considering starting to commute to work on an R3 motorcycle. Right now, I use a combination of the train and a scooter, which can reach speeds of 25-27 MPH. However, cars are often hostile towards me when I'm on the scooter, and it's become a concern.

My boyfriend suggested that using his R3 could actually be a safer option. It has better safety features, such as better brakes and lighting, and being on a motorcycle would allow me to legally take the full lane, reducing the risk of being passed aggressively by cars.

My biggest hesitation is how my family will react. I’m afraid of the “motorcycles are so dangerous, you're going to die” comments and the pressure to just buy a car instead. How do you navigate those conversations and reassure loved ones when switching from something like a scooter to a motorcycle?