Am I wrong for getting tattooed against my husband’s wishes?

I (53 F) and my husband (51 M) have been married for 25+ years. I started getting tattoos three years ago and I currently have 7. My husband has complained each time I’ve gotten a tattoo. He says they are a waste of money and he doesn’t like tattoos. He has also said that I have too many of them, and I need to stop.

Yesterday, I told him I made an appointment for another tattoo. He told me I need to consider that he married me when I had zero tattoos and I am changing myself drastically. He also said I am quickly reaching the limit where he will no longer find me attractive.

To be clear, I work and the money I spend for tattoos isn’t coming out of joint funds or money needed to pay bills. His argument is strictly about how he feels about my body and how I am choosing to decorate it.

One of my arguments is that I have the freedom of self expression. During the course of our marriage, the tattoos aren’t the only thing about me that has changed. I’ve also had 2 kids. I’ve gained and lost and regained 100 pounds. I’ve had multiple haircuts. He also gets upset when I cut my hair short.

I see his behavior as controlling. He sees my behavior as making drastic permanent changes without taking him into consideration. He thinks my tattoos are an act of rebellion against him and that I’m doing this to get back at him because I think he’s controlling. (I’ve accused him of being controlling for other things in the past.)

So, am I wrong for suddenly taking an interest in getting tattoos without asking my spouse how he feels about it? How do other people in long term relationships handle one partner making a drastic or permanent change to their appearance - do they have a discussion first, or just do what they want?

EDIT: Since a lot of commenters have been asking about my sudden need to get tattoos, cut my hair, and get fat, let me clear up a few things. My only grievous recent sin is the tattoos. In terms of weight, my weight has fluctuated our entire marriage. Many of us struggle with weight. I’ve given birth, so my body doesn’t look great from that. I was fat when we married. I’m currently 20 pounds heavier than I was when we married and actively dieting. The same with hair. My hair has changed dozens of times during our marriage- the only difference now is that I keep it short because it is thinning badly on top. Believe me, I wish it could be long. I’ve consulted with hairdressers and my doctor. I’m using a special shampoo to promote hair growth. I cut it short and artfully arrange it so it covers my scalp. My husband tells me I look like a boy. As for the tattoos, two of them cover self-harm scars from my teenage years. My most recent one covers dog injury scars. That’s what the next one is for. The others are just because I like them.