I've noticed a phenomenon within tunisians that they don't want to tell you how they immigrated to a good country

wondering why we hate eachother so much that you can't even do a bare minimum and guide early 20s guys like myself even though they finished highschool and have a diploma.. even in this sub it's always mute when someone wants to know something about a foreign agency or anything like that. If it's about " gatekeeping " wouldn't you want tunisians with talents to immigrate better than tunisians who do nothing but be rebellious and hateful in their country and then they get out and ruin our reputation and our opportunities ? This is such a bare minimum thing and we can't even be in good terms with it. It's tiring because if you think about most of us are self made, we have to raise ourselves, think for ourselves, teach ourselves everything because tunisians aren't reliable or wants best for eachother at anything. Such an unforgiving society