How do you guys deal with believers who constantly gossip or make perverted jokes.

If it was an unbeliever I wouldn't care, they don't know better, I'd be patient. But sometimes acquaintances who are believers will gossip or make sexual jokes and sometimes I feel like I partake because Im just there listening, or I try to change the conversation. Or sometimes I might ask a question and it suddenly turns into gossip and I'm like dang, 🙃. Maybe I should of just shut my trap.

Even family members will gossip or quarrel or say things that make me feel uncomfortable. And well I don't want to be a self righteous idiot and be like "the Bible says don't do this" , I know we can make mistakes, I make them daily, but I try not to practice certain things.