"You don't seem very submissive"

I have heard this more times than I can count. Mostly from "doms" that I have told off, because they don't respect boundaries (like, they expect nudes, and to be able to "dom" me right off the bat).

So, how does one seem submissive? I have it very clearly stated on my profile on fet, and a couple of more sites. I don't think I differ very much from other submissives on this sub, and I have learned a lot from you all - a huge thank you for that! ❤️

I am just confused. Isn't there as many flavors to being a sub or a Dom that there are people engaging in D/s? I would like to think so.

But, after having sone ten "doms" telling me I don't seem submissive, I just feel confused.

Any ideas?