Wife is uncomfortable with Orthodoxy

I’ve been going to Divine Liturgy for about 6 months. I’m getting pretty serious about Orthodoxy. What I mean by that is I’m praying a lot and starting to incorporate the dietary restrictions. I will eventually become a cathecuman if I continue with Orthodoxy. I would also like to think I’ve also become a more compassionate person but who knows. I have not been doing any sort of proselytizing. I keep my mouth shut about orthodoxy and pray that one day the love I show for others is enough to “preach” for me.

My wife is not religious or spiritual. She’s a very modern woman. She’s worried I’m going to start hating lgbt people, women, non-Christians and everyone else that Christians “hate”. When she brings it up I say no, we’re called to love everyone and focus on our own sins. She says that there’s nothing I can say to make her feel good about orthodox Christianity.

My priest is out of town so I haven’t been able to talk to him yet. I’m at a loss. Ironically, I take my marriage very seriously, even more seriously since inquiring about orthodoxy. Which she likes. So separation is definitely out of the question.

The other part of this is that I recently lost my job and my faith that God will put me where I’m supposed to be is what’s getting me through the day right now. I’ll have nothing if I don’t have this faith.

TL:DR

My wife is worried that I’m going to hate lgbt people, women and others that Christians supposedly “hate” as o get deeper into orthodoxy.