Should I get a rhino?

I’ve hated my nose ever since 6th grade when the boy I had the biggest crush on called it big. Rude, lol. (He’s a nice guy now)

Every time I ask someone what they think, they say it fits my face and suits me, which I agree with SOMETIMES.

Anyway, I’ve been thinking about a nose job for some years now, and want some non biased opinions.

Am I going to lose my self of identity if I do it?

Will I look better with a smaller nose?

Please gentle parent me as I’m sensitive :)