HELP ME!! ASAP.

Haina so my parents r strict, so parsi jatra ko bahana ma im going out w a lady hai, I HAVE NEVER GONE ON A DATE! ITS MY FIRST TIME AND I CANT TALK TO GIRLS SO IM NERVOUS BUT THAT ISNT THE MAIN PROBLEM, THE MAIN PROBLEM IS, ka jam!?! first date ma ka jam hami!?! WHAT SHLD I DO!?! Im so confused, help chaiyo hau experienced manxe haruko- like ka jada thik hunxa ani kk activites garda thik hola? also what shld i get for her?