issue: marriage not consummated withing 3 months
salaam wa rahmatullah.
My husband (25m) and I (25f) got married exactly three months ago today, but we haven't consummated the marriage. We only tried it once on the honeymoon, and I dried up quite quickly, so he didn't even insert himself. I'm really shy, and he's always taken the initiative in our relationship, so I thought he would want to do this too. Otherwise, he just plays with me, getting me wet and turning me on before he leaves and returns to his work/job, ending it right there and its damn annoying. I'm too shy to be completely open/talk with him about it, I've told him I'm ready before, but he never took action except that one time. He is definitely straight, and I believe he has a good libido as he does get turned on, Just doesnt take action. I don't know what's wrong, but it makes me hate him in a marriage that is otherwise quite joyful.
We both have very busy lifestyles too so its very hard to be in bed together. During the honeymoon, it was so hectic so we never got time, which also annoyed me.
- Would you all kindly pray for my troubles to be resolved?
- What should I do? (Talking to him about it is really very uncomfortable for me
im someone who finds it very hard to express what i want and im honestly so shy bringing this up, it truly is very uncomfy for me. i wish there was another way.