Looking for a Recommendation: Bonus points if it’s at Costco

Wife and I have a Spindle Latex mattress. I kind of hate it. I have upper back pain that’s been unresolved through the whole year we have had it.

Stats: 5’9” - 200 - Muscular/athletic // back and side USUALLY, but I keep waking up on my stomach randomly.

5’7” - 155 - wide hips // side sleeper

She has hip pain if mattresses are too firm. It’s always shoulder and rhomboid area pain for me.

Mattresses we have tried: -Nectar Mattress, great for both of us, lasted 3-4 years. -Novaform Comfort Grande. Horrible. -Spindle Latex Mattress. We have tried every config and added an extra layer. Closest we have been to satisfied has been soft-soft-medium-hard. We both have neck pain.

Pillows: -Ergo neck pillow from Amazon -3 variations of coop pillow (we have the moon shaped one, the one with the side bolsters, and the original.) -Costco pillows (used these for years without issues)

Nothing has helped. I’m kind of over it, she basically just said she doesn’t care anymore and if she shows up at home and we have a new mattress she will sleep on it 😅

I’m about ready to just get another Nectar mattress since it didn’t both us and we actually had a decent experience with their warranty but with that being said I heard they changed the bed again.