Is this normal or acceptable to you

Hi everyone. I’m trying to get a number of opinions from married people. Is it normal for oral sex to be off limits in a marriage? For context, I’m female and have a nice body, good hygiene and have always been desired in that way in previous relationships. My husband will not perform it on me and hasn’t since we were dating. He doesn’t like to receive due to childhood trauma which I respect. As much as I enjoy giving I would NEVER want someone to participate in something that causes them pain or trauma. I want to be clear that his Trauma did not involve a woman.

It’s been many, many years and I miss it so much. Anyone else in a long term marriage like this? Is this normal? I’ve asked numerous times and he just says he doesn’t like it, never has. I then bring up how he did it when we were dating and then after marriage just stopped. I shared that I feel like it was a bait and switch. He said I can feel however I want but it’s just how he is.

I’d like to get as much feedback as possible to show him how others view this because when I try to offer a different perspective, I’m accused of being dramatic.