WTAF is wrong with men?

Hi hi. Long time listener (lurker).

This happened this evening and I’m still wound up over it.

My wife (37f) and I (41f) are away on a vacation.

Tonight (night 1) we were in one of the resort lounge bars playing trivia, and there’s a loud group of drunk men behind us all in tee shirts that say ‘ain’t no party like a Diddy party’. Gross. I’m immediately on guard and uneasy, but pay them no mind.

I order drinks for us and sit down, taking my wife’s hands in mine. Again, we are minding our own business and not engaging with them, only each other.

The trivia MCs were saying to the crowd that if we see people cheating in the trivia to point and say ‘shame’ loudly (ala Game of Thrones - Cersei’s walk of shame scene).

So this drunk bald guy behind us shouts ‘oi’ to the MC, points at my wife and I and loudly says ‘SHAME SHAME’.’ cackling loudly.

Sir, this is fucking family place.

I promptly gave him the finger, and suggested he take a leaf out of his hairlines book and take a step back.

He didn’t say anything further, but I have to wonder what the actual fuck is wrong with these people and where the fuck they get the audacity. I wasn’t doing anything that would warrant such an aggressive assertion - but apparently I attract dickheads like this thinking they have something to prove.

Has anyone had something similar happen? Or repeated instances of this type of thing?

/endrant