"That’s like bleeding near a shark."
Saw this discussion on twitter and it makes sense alot. Someone says "Women love the idea of a vulnerable man — On Netflix. In books. On TikTok therapy reels.
But in real life? The moment you start expressing your deep struggles, you can actually watch the attraction drain from her eyes. Because while she likes the concept of emotional intimacy… What she respects is a man who can handle his own sh*t."
Men can be vulnerable with their partners but the issue is some women perceive that vulnerability as a weakness and later exploit it. For most men this is seen as a huge sign of betrayal in the eyes of a real man.
I once opened up to someone I was dating and regretted at once. She was all judgy and offered no help, showed no empathy, it's like some women don't recognize the effort we have to make to be vulnerable, this is why men tend to bottle up their feelings.
Note that I've no problem with women, this is just how things are; it is what it is.
Ruto Must Go.
Saw this discussion on twitter and it makes sense alot. Someone says "Women love the idea of a vulnerable man — On Netflix. In books. On TikTok therapy reels.
But in real life? The moment you start expressing your deep struggles, you can actually watch the attraction drain from her eyes. Because while she likes the concept of emotional intimacy… What she respects is a man who can handle his own sh*t."
Men can be vulnerable with their partners but the issue is some women perceive that vulnerability as a weakness and later exploit it. For most men this is seen as a huge sign of betrayal in the eyes of a real man.
I once opened up to someone I was dating and regretted at once. She was all judgy and offered no help, showed no empathy, it's like some women don't recognize the effort we have to make to be vulnerable, this is why men tend to bottle up their feelings.
Note that I've no problem with women, this is just how things are; it is what it is.
Ruto Must Go.