Are relationships always this hard?

After being in a 3-yr long toxic relationship, I decided to take a break from relationships since 2021, I defaulted in 2022 feb and decided to give a guy who was a long time friend a chance but he quickly proved to me why I should have sticked to my prior decision. I did, and I've been single ever since. December last year, I decided to try again and wueh! It's barely 2 months and I'm already tired😫. Sasa ni kama my people will have to forget about kushona vitenge and wajukuu coz wueh! Acha tu nitafte pesa nijiweke vizuri yawah this love thing ain't for the weak and I'm the weakest😪. Anyway what I'm trying to say is Kasongo Must Go!!😁😅