Thoughts?
My best female friend recently got married in an arranged setup, and I’m genuinely happy for her. We've been close since childhood, so I know her very well. She’s from Rajasthan, with naturally dark skin that lightened by 6-7 shades after puberty. She has incredibly long, thick Rapunzel-like hair, reaching about 5.5 feet, and is skilled in household work. However, she’s not particularly intellectual and barely speaks English.
She got engaged to a guy who was impressed by her looks and hair. He seems to have an ideal personality—religious, spiritual (follows Premanandaji’s thoughts), intellectual, wealthy, and handsome. And probably no past relation as he believes in karma, moksha.
One day, she shared a conversation she had with him. He asked her about her past relationships, and she told him she had none. She also told me, "Mujhe ek hi ladke ke saath rehna padega, kaise hoga mera? And I’m deleting my old accounts, bas pachakna mat (don’t tell anyone)." And she literally deleted all social media with different user name.
And then after two months, she took 8.5k from me reason is bhai ke class ki fees ke liye chahiye urgent..and also her aunt called me one day, (when she moved from here to RJ for her ceremonies prep), for asking interest on money she borrowed from her neighbour without my knowlege. ( here i'm earning well in IT).
The truth is, I feel bad for him. She’s my best friend, but I know about her past. She’s had relationships with about 2.5 dozen guys—6 of them serious, the rest just for casual chatting. After 12th grade, she joined a law program but wasn’t interested in studying and eventually failed. Her “job” was skipping college to hang out with guys. Later, she completed a BA degree via distance learning.
Does beauty really define someone’s character? Guys do you really think about this?