Help choosing a controller

I play Elden Ring on PC a LOT. More than any healthy person.

I prefer an xbox style controller.

Cost is no object. (Let's say $300 budget)

I prefer wireless.

The paddles on the back are VERY important. I use them as much as the triggers.

Controlling trigger pull length matters to me.

USA

I can't quite describe why I don't like my razer wolverine v3. Maybe the buttons aren't quite in the right spot? In any case, it's less than a month old and I'm shopping again. I hope I get it right this time.