Guy apparently 'dodged a bullet' on me because im feminist

This was this guy in my school that my friends suggested i talk to, and even his friends encouraged him to talk to me when they heard because they thought that we'd be a good match, we are studious, have similar humour, are interested in the same things...so we both gave it a shot, he eventually backed off because he wanted to focus on his studying and i respected that because i wanted to aswell.

But now, hes apparently shitting on me saying that he didnt know i was one of those 'feminists' and laughing about dodging a bullet... 😭⁉️ bro, Indian men are seriously uneducated even after having good academic scores... why does no one even wanna consider learning what feminism is and how serious the problems of women are, they dont need to be at every feminist support or talk about these things outright but they should at least be supportive of it... whenever someone says "women should be treated equally" why is their reply immediately " but ___"?

I feel really shit rn and some of my friends (female) are indirectly blaming me for it. Mind you i didnt go up to the guy and start spouting 'feminist ideology', he heard it from a dude who was pretending to be a white knight feminist just to talk and befriend me, whats even sadder is that we had a genuinely meaningful conversation about growing rape cases in India (this was during the Kolkatta r@pe case) and rather than the main issue at hand they see a woman talking about the issues she faces in society and put the villian label on her. Disgusting.