Got tired from my Parents

It's been over one year now that I've been searching for a suitable partner. Every time I find someone, my family has an issue—mostly because the girl is not from our caste. On top of that, it's already difficult to find an educated and ambitious girl within our community.

Living in the U.S. makes it even harder, as the pool of potential matches is already small, and very few girls are willing to relocate here. Eventually, I started making compromises, realizing that it's nearly impossible to find everything in one place.

Finally, I found someone who meets all the important criteria—she's from the same caste, independent, and ambitious. A few days ago, my family met her, and during their conversation, she mentioned that her brother eats non-vegetarian food. That one statement triggered unnecessary negativity, and my mother immediately started making negative comments about her. But for my mom, only beauty matters, nothing else. She didn't said any positive thing about the girl only the negative parts.

Personally, I have no issues with food preferences, but my family is blowing this out of proportion. It's been three months now, and we haven't spoken. They never call me, and I don’t reach out either. I'm stuck in this situation because of them, despite trying everything from my side.

At this point, I genuinely don't know what to do. I'm exhausted and frustrated. Any advice?