What verbal abuse is she referring to?

I thought I heard somewhere that Amber had asked a fan to share a specific clip of ZM “verbally abusing” her because she doesn’t want to go subject herself to watching his content on this quest for said clip.

It also sounds like she’s referring to something very specific, because ZM is prob one of the least brutal reaction channels out there, so describing his criticisms as “abuse” would be such a reach… I don’t even think she would go that low.