AIO The mid 30s guy I like follows tons of unerage girls on TikTok and adds them on IG...

The mid 30s guy I like and started dating follows tons of teenage girls on TikTok, mostly senior high school students, and adds them on his personal Instagram account. I find it very alarming because these are very young girls posting thirst trap videos and it seems to me that majority of his followings are them. It's a very creepy behavior imo. I can also see that he's very active on TikTok and Instagram but seldom chats with me, and when asked how's he doing, he often says he's busy with work as if he really works 24/7. He doesn't.