Do you tran friends *actually* want to have kids?
Like I don’t, i keep seeing this being the biggest concern for cissoids “oh no they are making themselves infertile!!” So? Even my mom was like “what if you want to have kids one day???” Even if the idea of getting someone pregnant wasn’t extremely dysphoric to me I don’t really want to. If that changes i can just adopt anyway
I sometimes even see fellow trans people be concerned about this “oh no I can’t start hrt until I freeze sperm!!” The idea of doing it gives me dysphoria too I never done it
I kinda get mtfs feeling dysphoria that they can’t get pregnant or ftms not being able to get others pregnant because it makes us different from cis people. But even if i was cis I myself probably wouldn’t want to get pregnant, sounds like a nightmare!